Personally fitness is more than just the time I spend in the gym or exercising. It's the entire lifestyle so to say it shouldn't be your everything I agree; however, it isn't something you can spend 2 hours a day on and just forget the other 22 hours.

Bodybuilding isn't about looking better than everyone else, it's all about individual goals. I think what she means is don't become self-obsessed.

Agreed... #4 is questionable. Not saying you need to destroy your social life, but fitness is definitely a lifestyle. The food choices are easily among the top necessities to concern oneself with. But the whole "getting mad when people use your food" and "arguing over which restaurant to go to" doesn't sound like fitness was the problem; it sounds more like an underlying anger issue exacerbated by fanaticism. The true point of #4 is "Don't be an ******* about your passions" No offense, of course.